Monday, March 31, 2025

Medicare Hell (A Cautionary Tale)


This is a blog post I had hoped never to write, as this story doesn’t make me look too intelligent. That said, I hope that you will learn from my mistakes and don’t do what I did!

Back in the fall of 2023, I made the decision to ditch employer provided health insurance and plunge ahead into Medicare. It was an easy decision as I was expecting to retire soon and was tired of fighting with my employer provided plan over things that were supposed to be covered but often were denied. As anyone approaching 62 can tell you, there are plenty of options and you will receive at least 20 official looking envelopes a week from companies that offer Medicare policies. Sooner or later, we all make the jump to Medicare - how hard could it be?  

So, at the beginning of 2024, I traded the comfort of a single line paycheck deduction for 8 separate policies for my wife and myself. We each had Medicare Parts A (hospitalization), B (regular healthcare), and D (prescription meds). Denise took a plan F (supplemental) and I took a plan G (supplemental). We worked with our plan administrator to get all the payments on autopilot, or at least that’s what I thought we did. 

Early in January, I caught COVID, or maybe it caught me. I’m a little fuzzy on the details for that period of time because brain fog is real. From January through July, I felt like my brain was functioning at about 20% of normal capacity. Focusing on anything for more than 30 seconds felt impossible. And just about every day, there would be 2 or 3 official looking envelopes telling me about all of these Medicare policies and I’d toss them all in the garbage without even opening them. Then one day in early August, I opened one up. It informed me that my Medicare Part B policy had been cancelled for lack of payment.

I scratched my head and wondered what was going on. It turned out that the billing for Medicare Part B wasn’t on autopilot. It also turns out that without Part B coverage, you can’t have Part D or G. I was screwed - no health coverage until I got reinstated. I went down to the local Social Security office, pleaded guilty to being an idiot and asked to be reinstated. They told me I needed to pay up the back payments and they’d do their best to get my Part B going again. It was then that I learned that getting reinstated for Part B involves both the Medicare and Social Security teams working together - two gigantic organizations who were both severely understaffed. They warned me, it might take a while. I wrote the check and said a prayer.

My check for the missed payment didn’t even clear the bank for almost two months, but once it did, it gave me hope. I became a regular visitor to my local social security office – every week I’d stop in and ask for an update. I was nice at first but became increasingly agitated. They always told me the same thing - they had no control over any of it - it was out of their hands. I asked, “whose hands it was in?” They couldn’t tell me. None of them. Every week it was the same conversation. I was fed up. In early November, I contacted Senator Mark Warner’s office and asked for help. They said they would, and I was satisfied that I had sic’d the big dogs on them. But still… nothing. Nothing but the same old story - Two gigantic organizations who were both severely understaffed. 

In early December, I got a call from the top supervisor at the Roanoke Social Security Office. They needed another check to cover the time from August 1st to the end of the year. I happened to have the checkbook with me, drove right down and paid the man. I was getting desperate for something to happen. Finally, in mid-December, he called again to inform me that my Part B coverage had been reinstated. I felt like a huge weight had been lifted off me – now I could get sick and not have to worry.

The moral of the story is this - don’t ever miss a Medicare payment. I don’t care if you are in a coma and your arms and legs have been amputated. You need to crawl out of your hospital bed and pay that bill. Because once you get the boot, you may never get back on. And not to go political or anything, but you know what’s happening in DC and government offices all over the land. This could happen to you just like it happened to me. You could literally get sick, die and be reborn two or three times before you get it straightened out.

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Sunday, March 2, 2025

This Blog Post Could Save Your Financial Life!


What would happen to your personal finances if you were incapacitated for a period of time?
  Would your bills get paid?  Would taxes get filed on time?  Would you you get sued or your credit take a nosedive because nobody had the legal authority to access your money?  I got a big wakeup call on this very subject late in January and I learned some pretty important lessons that are worth sharing. If you have any kind of financial obligations in life, you’d best listen up - this could save your financial life.

Back in 2009, a very good friend of the family was dealing with breast cancer. At the time, she didn’t know how the disease or her treatment would affect her ability to manage her affairs, so she asked if I would step in if needed.  I said OK, and she had her attorney draw up what is known as a “Durable Power of Attorney” (POA) granting me the legal authority to manage her affairs.  As it turned out then, her treatment was effective, and I never had to step in.  The document was filed and forgotten.  Around the same time, my wife Denise suffered a stroke, and our social life took a big hit.  Our friend took another job in a different city, and we fell out of touch except for the occasional greeting on Facebook.

Fast forward to December of 2024.  Our friend suffered a brain bleed and ended up hospitalized - a traumatic brain injury is what it’s referred to.  This resulted in memory loss and, being hospitalized, she wasn’t able to manage her affairs. Her family tried their best to handle things, but in the days of ultra-high bank security, they weren’t able to access her funds. Someone remembered her saying that she had a signed POA, and I was somehow involved.  They hunted me down on Facebook.  I looked for and found the POA and sent it to the family and, after some discussion, it was agreed that I was in the best position to tackle the role.  It’s been an education to say the least. 

Imagine that you suffer a serious injury or disease that sidelined you, either temporarily or permanently.  Did you know that your spouse or significant other / family member / friends can’t legally access your accounts or assets unless their name is on the account or title? They can’t sell your assets if needed to pay your medical bills.  If you are smart like my friend was, you’ll find someone that you trust and have a POA drawn up and executed (signed and notarized) so that if something happens, your affairs can be handled efficiently and legally.  If this isn’t in place, it can take months to get a court ordered conservator appointed to manage your affairs.  As I’ve discovered, a POA is as important as having a Will or Advance Medical Directive.

Here’s are 5 big things a POA can do for you:

You get to appoint someone that you trust (your agent) to manage your affairs, not just whoever is available or steps up in a crisis (qualified or not). This allows you to choose someone you trust to act in your best interests and follow your preferences.

It helps to reduce and hopefully avoid family stress, anxiety and disagreements during an already extremely stressful time, and you can recover without having to worry about your financial affairs.

The person you choose can step in quickly and prevent bad things from happening to your credit.  The last thing you need during your recovery is to be badgered by collection agencies calling on you and not caring that you are disabled.

By clearly outlining the agent's powers and limitations, a power of attorney can help prevent unauthorized actions and protect you from potential financial exploitation.

Your agent can interact with various agencies and companies on your behalf, resolving issues and making arrangements when you're unable to do so.

So, what’s the next step?  If you’ve already have a POA in place, sit back and relax or maybe share this post to others who might still need it.  If not, you can consult with a lawyer to see what’s required where you live or even use Legal Zoom or other online legal resources.  It may cost you a few hundred bucks, but if the time ever comes, it is a really important thing to have for both you and your family.  None of us are immune from things that can rob us of our independence and freedom, but this is one thing that you can do in advance to protect everything that you’ve worked for all of your life.

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Medicare Hell (A Cautionary Tale)

This is a blog post I had hoped never to write, as this story doesn’t make me look too intelligent. That said, I hope that you will learn fr...